The Bible knows nothing of solitary religion – John Wesley

Today, a significant misunderstanding of the Biblical concept of ‘fellowship’ prevails, and its repercussions on God’s people are severe. This is not just a matter of concern but a critical issue that urgently needs to be addressed. As per God’s word, fellowship with Him and His people is not just an option but A NECESSITY FOR THE CHRISTIAN LIFE! As John shows us, the reason the apostles proclaimed the message of Jesus and wrote the Bible was to bring people into fellowship with the Godhead and His people.

  • 1 John 1:3-7  what we have seen and heard we proclaim to you also, so that you too may have fellowship with us; and indeed our fellowship is with the Father, and with His Son Jesus Christ.  (4)  These things we write, so that our joy may be made complete…(7)  but if we walk in the Light as He Himself is in the Light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin.  

Unfortunately, when many people hear the word “fellowship,” they immediately associate it with surface-type Christian gatherings that lack depth or meaningful interaction. In this shallow connection among participants, there is little interaction with God, along with optional light socializing for those who think they might like it. However, the Biblical concept of ‘fellowship’ should not be underestimated. It is not just a connection but a profound and spiritually significant reality that we must strive to understand and embrace. 

The Biblical term ‘fellowship’ is not a passive or lighthearted idea. The Greek word (Koinonia) is defined as “joint participation, intercourse, partnership, participation, and communion” (Thayer’s Greek Definitions).  Fellowship is not just a belief but a call to action. It is an active involvement in the relational life with Jesus and His body, and our participation is not just important but crucial.

John, the last New Testament writer and the last apostle alive who walked with Jesus wrote extensively about how our actual relationship with God and His people is essential and interconnected. Why did he write so much about these things? He addressed Greek philosophies that were infiltrating and being embraced by God’s people, causing them to drift away from Jesus and His design in building His church.   

These philosophies promoted ideas leading to dualism; what I believe and how I live are disconnected.  These Greek philosophies (later brought under the title “Gnosticism”) emphasized spiritual knowledge (gnosis) as the most important thing regardless of how one lived.  They believed human beings were composed of a material body and an immaterial mind (body/soul).  If their mind believed correctly, they were okay, regardless of how they were actively living their lives.

This type of dualism is a destructive idea that God’s people have faced for centuries. I call it Mental Assent Christianity.  It is a superficial or intellectual agreement with Christian truths (I believe in Jesus) with little impact on one’s actual life.  This is disastrous to our spiritual life and our witness to the world around us.  I call this “believism” or “sub-demon faith” that James writes about.

  • James 2:14-20 ERV My brothers and sisters, if a person claims to have faith but does nothing, that faith is worth nothing…(19)  You believe there is one God. That’s good, but even the demons believe that! And they shake with fear.  (20)  You fool! Faith that does nothing is worth nothing. Do you want me to prove this to you? (Weymouth “faily apart from obedience is worthless”).

We are called to more than simply an intellectual belief about Jesus; we are called to an actual way of life, walking with Him and His people. THIS IS CRITICAL TO OUR LIFE IN HIM AND OUR WITNESS TO THE WORLD!!!

Authentic Biblical Fellowship/Koinonia is the way Jesus builds

Jesus clearly declared, “I will build My church” (Matthew 16:18).   Real fellowship (Koinonia) with God and His people is the active building process described by Paul and Peter using phrases such as “built on, built/fitted together, built up, and growing.” 

  • Eph 2:14-22…(19) So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints, and are of God’s household,  (20)  having been built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Christ Jesus Himself being the corner stone,  (21)  in whom the whole building, being fitted together, is growing into a holy temple in the Lord,  (22)  in whom you also are being built together into a dwelling of God in the Spirit.
  • 1Pe 2:2-9 so that you will grow in respect to salvation…you also, as living stones, being built up as a spiritual house.

This was how Jesus began to build the first expression of His church in Jerusalem. The members were devoted to fellowship (real relationship with God and each other). 

  • Act 2:41-42 ….They were continually devoting themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. (TPT Their hearts were mutually linked to one another…. coming together regularly for prayer”).

Characteristics of “Religious Fellowship” and How to Move Beyond It into God’s Reality

Shallow, Religious Fellowship.

  • Shallow Interactions: Discussions only revolve around general topics like sports, weather, or casual updates without delving into personal struggles, spiritual growth, or deeper issues of faith.
  • Limited Spiritual Focus or Connection: While the gathering might occur in a church building or among believers, there may be little to no emphasis on prayer, worship, or discussions about God’s word or what He may be doing in their lives.
  • Lack of Vulnerability: People might hesitate to share their true feelings, struggles, or spiritual challenges, leading to interactions that stay on a safe, superficial level.
  • Event-Centered: The gathering is often centered around an activity or event (like a potluck, picnic, or game night) rather than on building deeper relationships or spiritual growth.

Moving beyond Surface-Type Fellowship and into God’s design.

  • Hunger for and take steps to move beyond surface-level interactions: As we realize God’s design, we take steps to move beyond surface-level interactions and onto personal experiences and what God is doing in them.
  • Incorporate Prayer (communication with God), God’s word, and Spiritual gifts into our interactions: As you interact with each other, also interact with God and Holy Spirit.  Pause and pray about things that come up.  Share insights and Spiritual gifts God may be highlighting.  Realize God is among us and give attention to Him in our interactions, “wherever two or three are gathered together in My name, there I am in the midst of them” (Matthew 18:20).  Take pauses to pray and give thanks, etc. (1 Thessalonians 5:8).
  • Encourage Vulnerability: Create a safe space where people feel comfortable sharing their struggles, doubts, and joys in their walk with God. When people do, encourage, and thank them for doing it.
  • Practice Hebrews 3, 10, and the 59 one another’s as we relate: There are 59 direct “one another” commands in our life together, some of which we can incorporate in every interaction (download them here https://c2cfamily.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/59-Biblical-and-Modern-day-one-anothers-1.pdf). 
  • Hebrews 3:6-16 Take care, brethren, that there not be in any one of you an evil, unbelieving heart that falls away from the living God.  (13)  But encourage one another day after day, as long as it is still
  • Hebrews 10:21-25 …  (24)  and let us consider how to stimulate one another to love and good deeds,  (25)  not forsaking our own assembling together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another; and all the more as you see the day drawing near.

Restoration of God’s design for fellowship with Him and each other is an essential part of His building process and our witness to the world. Let us not settle for anything less but actively pursue and embrace His intended design.

1 Corinthians 1:9-10  God is faithful, by whom you were called to the fellowship of His Son, Jesus Christ our Lord…(10) I urge you, brothers…that you be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment.